Welcome to the website of the Totton Disco, the Central-South's premier transgender disco venue. The disco has been running, in one guise or another, for more than twenty years in the same location: Totton's Empire Hall, on the western fringes of Southampton. The venue was run for many years by the Mayflower Society, but the current organisers, "The Friends Of Totton Disco", took over in early 2014 when Mayflower decided to concentrate on discussion-based support meetings.
For February we'll be using the "main" door into the Empire Hall, rather than the side door that's been in use for the last decade. We've now had three noise complaints from a local resident during the past five months, and this is partly due to the side door being left open. The main door is further from the line of flats. We'll also be taking other measures to reduce the possibility of further complaints. Please bear with us.
The end of 2017 and start of 2018 saw some record-breaking attendance figures for recent years. 89 attended our December disco, and 60 came in January. Obviously we're doing something right! People appreciate the welcoming atmosphere and the fact that the organisers are all volunteers., Of course Katie's great music sets are the real pull.
If you are a regular at the disco and wish to volunteer for a half-hour spell, please have a word with Eleanor.
From Autumn 2017 all the finances are on a solid footing, with a bank account that requires two signatories for all transactions. The current "finance" people are: Eleanor, Sylvie Buckle and Gina Hallett. We post a financial summary a few days after each disco; you can see it on our Facebook page.
Numbers attending the monthly disco night have been steadily increasing during the past three years. We had a record-breaking 82 people attending our December 2016 Xmas party night. Our first evening in 2017, January's "SteamPunk" evening, saw a January high of 53 people. Our February evening continued in the same vein, with 54 attendees.
With this in mind, we have decided to reduce the entry price to £5 for a six month period, and will review the effect in July.
The Friends of Totton Disco is a loose-knit group of regular attendees. A small, informal committee of dedicated volunteers manages the monthly event, but is responsive to ideas from regular visitors. We encourage all attendees to participate in running the event, if they have the time. We are a mix of transgender people, friends, family and supporters. We welcome all genuine transgender people, wherever you are on the spectrum, along with partners and friends - as long as you are tolerant and would like a good evening out in safe surroundings, you will have a great time at our venue. It is important to understand that the organisers and the helpers are all volunteers from the local trans community, receiving no payment for what they do. We are not a commercial venue.
What will you find when you arrive? A welcoming group of people (once we've extracted your £5 entry money!); lighthearted chat and conversation; the area's best dance floor and the region's best T-girl DJ; a varied menu of hot food; a full range of drinks at the bar; a mixed clientele of TVs, TSs, wives, partners and friends; a safe and secure environment in which to relax and enjoy yourself; a complete absence of intimidation (which the organisers will not tolerate); links to local and national support groups and societies; expert help and advice if you need it. The venue is supported by the local police LAGLO.
If you are a member, friend or supporter of the transgender community then please come along and support this friendly bunch of people. It will only cost you £5 to get in and you'll have an enjoyable evening. We go out of our way to make wives/partners/friends/family members feel welcome and part of the group. We do our best to run a safe and supportive venue, light-hearted but with people on hand who can point you in the right direction for further advice and help.
Contact us for more information.
We meet on the 3rd Thursday of each month, from 7:30 pm until 11:30 pm. The fully licensed bar stays open until 11 pm, with a varied menu of hot food available until 9 pm. The bar serves a large range of wines, beers (including real ale), cider, spirits, soft drinks, tea, coffee and snacks. Our resident DJ, Katie Gridley, has been running discos for many years in the central south. Entry cost: a mere £5. We have a prize raffle and occasional clothes sales.Venue details are:-
The Empire Hall (next to Totton Conservative Club), Salisbury Road, Totton. SO40 3PY. It is best to park in the nearby library car park if you can't find a slot around the hall. There is a lit walkway from the library that takes you to the road very near to the Empire Hall. Do not park in the shoppers car park opposite or you may find yourself billed.